Ways to Work Together

There are several meaningful ways to work together, each thoughtfully designed to honor your budget, your timeline, and your vision. Below, you’ll find ceremony options crafted to fit your unique needs — all created with intention and inclusivity. Take your time exploring the options, and if you have any questions, I’m here to help you find the perfect fit for your special day.

🦉Owl & Rose Ceremonies🌹

Script Only / Digital Download

A modern, unique, and inclusive collection of budget friendly, instantly downloadable ceremony scripts for couples who are having a friend or relative officiate their special day.

• Wedding and elopement scripts

• Bilingual ceremony scripts (¡Tenemos guiones en español!)

• A self-solemnization planning guide

• An expert vow writing tutorial

• A premarital reflection journal

Perfect for non-religious and civil ceremonies, each script can be used as-is or adapted to include personal vows, readings, and rituals. They are budget friendly, instantly downloadable, and each comes with a ceremony personalization guide and a guide for first time officiants.

$ = Low/Budget

Explore Owl & Rose Ceremonies on Etsy →

🌿The Power of Pausing

Elopements, micro-weddings, and short lead time ceremonies

The Power of Pausing is a sacred-but-not-religious ceremony that is full of presence, connection, acknowledgement of the natural world, and the power of pausing to mark our big, important milestones.

Learn about The Power of Pausing →

$$ = Mid-range

📸 Photographer + Officiant Duo

Read about my creative collaboration with local photographer Melissa Ergo →

💍 The Rite of Matrimony

Bespoke from start to finish

A one-of-a-kind ceremony experience created in collaboration from the ground up — artful, dynamic, and utterly your own.

Contact me to schedule a free 1-hour Zoom meeting to assess fit →

$$$ = High-end

💫 Final Thoughts

Whether you're planning a simple weekday elopement or a bespoke ceremony months in the making, there’s an option designed to meet you where you are. From beautifully worded DIY scripts to a deeply customized ceremony package, each option is crafted with care to meet a range of needs, timelines and budgets. 

Please be aware that the Rite of Matrimony requires a minimum of three months’ advance booking to allow the time and space this kind of ceremony deserves. It also requires a free 1-hour Zoom meeting to assess fit due to the intimate and intensive nature of the process.

Read about my unique orientation and approach to ceremony →

“Naomi is a magician when it comes to this rite of passage; if you are looking for an officiant who will work with you to both usher you into marriage with heart and create a ceremony that is truly tailored to you, she’s the one. The magic in the ceremony she created for us was truly her: Her writing, her pulling of perfect quotes, her ability to create something concrete out of the ephemeral *feeling* that we told her we wanted to focus on in our ceremony.” -Simone, bride